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Change seems Unilateral but in actions is bilateral.

CHANGE has nothing to do with obsession; it is about killing bad habits, bad attitudes, and procrastination that stand between you and your desires, goals, and dreams. Of all things in life, nothing is more mandatory than change—especially change in actions, not just in words. It is far easier to apologize for laziness and bad habits (unilateral change) than to humbly show through consistent action what you truly mean (bilateral change)—two birds with one stone. In my years of living, I’ve learned that life requires different responses at different times: to be crazy sometimes, mad at times, calm at others, to laugh, or simply to let things go. Maturity has a profound impact on change. But how? Maturity is being reasonable and understanding, confronting issues when necessary, communicating thoughtfully, compromising when appropriate, sacrificing when needed, and being willing to settle at times. It is also the wisdom to exit toxic relationships—be they friendships, family ties, or roma...
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Scars & Strength

Chapter 1 – The First Losses I first lost my grandma when I was in grade 3, in 2007, if I’m not mistaken. I was just a child, still learning the world, still learning life. Yet, life chose to teach me a lesson that no child should have to learn. Her smile, her voice, her laughter—suddenly gone. The house felt empty. My heart felt empty. I didn’t know how to cry properly then. I just felt a hollow that stayed with me. I remember trying to understand why she was gone. But I couldn’t. Children don’t have the answers. And then… the unimaginable happened. The same year, I lost my mother. The person who gave me life. The person who comforted me when I cried. The person I thought would always be there… She was gone. And if life wanted to break me even more, it did. On the morning of her burial, my little brother passed away. Three deaths. One year. Three pieces of my heart ripped out before I could even understand life. I remember the faces around me, crying, shouting, mourning. But inside me...
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BROKEN BUT STILL GOING

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📖 Broken But Still Going — By David M. Msibi We live in a world where pain often goes unseen — where people smile while breaking inside. Broken But Still Going is a raw and honest reflection of that hidden struggle. Written by David M. Msibi, this powerful book tells the story of a young man who has faced heartbreak, loss, and emotional wounds, yet still finds the strength to move forward. Each page carries a piece of truth — about grief, forgiveness, loneliness, and healing. It’s not just a story; it’s a message to every person who has cried in silence, battled depression, or felt forgotten. It reminds you that your brokenness doesn’t define you — your courage to keep going does. David doesn’t write as a perfect man, but as someone who has been through darkness and still chooses light. Through  vulnerability and faith, Broken But Still Going speaks hope into broken souls — especially young people who’ve lost direction or feel unworthy of peace. This is a book that whi...
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Decency to Communicate, Respect, and Loving Right

In a world where love is often mistaken for mere emotion, it’s important to remember that real love requires effort, honesty, and discipline. At the heart of every healthy relationship lies three timeless values — decency to communicate, respect, and loving right. Decency to communicate is more than just talking; it’s about how we talk. It’s about tone, timing, and truth. Too often, people lose one another not because they stop loving, but because they stop communicating with care. Decent communication means listening to understand, not to defend. It means expressing feelings without tearing each other down. When communication lacks decency, even love struggles to survive. Respect is the quiet power that holds everything together. It’s what reminds you that the person you’re with is not your opponent, but your partner. Respect shows up in small things — in patience during arguments, in valuing your partner’s space, and in treating their emotions as valid, even when you don’t agree. Wit...
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My Dream : Destiny 101

My Dream Destiny 101 In the vast of the mist of the night , the outcome of it is just a dream of bad times .I here assure you the brokenness of life itself.  My dream I engaged to various experiences of struggle, financial drop fall and in the chaos i felt unessentially drop fall of the hindrances hits home. Do one really gets ahead with all the obstruction of pain. My Dream [06/05, 13:53] Author David M Msibi: Unleash all the pieces of brokenness in your heart to heal the outstanding life giver and particularly the best version of overcoming series of particular outrageous [06/05, 13:55] Author David M Msibi: Unleash all the pieces of brokenness in your heart to heal the outstanding life giver and particularly the best version of overcoming series of particular outrageous. My dream The cast of new aura of Bad Spirit is being left behind nothing that came to cross nor harm me nor my family I call upon The Almight God and my ancestors ( Ondlondlo omabuya ongabuyi , owabuya nengwe ne...
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Stick to your standards

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Over the years ,i was so passionate in building up my name ,wokring hard setting standards so high . I genuinely make my progress in times that are confusion ,sometimes i ask myself if i know what i am doing,i know where i am going? I know where i will be one da?. The answer was pretty amazing hence i came to realize that so many have rejected me indirectly of who  i am because i am not intolerant of the nonsense .. It is very pleasing to walk away from people who have rejected you hence on how you live your life,on how you do things.Discipline is a foundation of everything that you are building,please take charge don't surrender you to accomodate anyone ,who wouldn't compromise for you.
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Note To Self: David M.Msibi

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It is has been a rollercoaster of short term of year.To my upper head ,it was supposed to be the best year of my life but it turned out to be the worst of my life which has brought alot of lessons learned. Firstly : i urge people to be brave enough to realize what they worth and not to run away from hard times ,please face those hardships head on because that's when you'll realize that alot of people that are in your corner will fall off when you are at your worst moment of life and that is great hence that's what God wants . Secondly: I was so stressed daily in a way that when i wake up everyday in the morning i don't look forward  to the dawning of a new day because of alot of pressure ,i was in and sometimes i wished i left and move out of town to start afresh but something said " No ,be strong and be still." When you fall someone will celebrate but when God trips you to get out ,don't be too mad about it Musa ,allow it to happen.Some fights...
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